When cousins meet at Dassera

 

Cherishing Traditions Amidst Navratri & Dassera

The festive air of Navratri and Dassera had filled Mumbai with colour, music, and devotion. At Dosti, laughter echoed through the rooms as cousins and family members reunited after months. Rohan had specially flown down for the celebrations, eager to meet his sister Priya and cousins Ria and Aditya, and their spouses Sanjiv, Vignesh, and Rashmi. Even Sandip, Sanjiv’s brother, joined in, adding to the cheerful chaos.

The living room soon turned into a hub of conversation, playful banter, and reminiscing of childhood memories of celebrating Navratri together - decked up for garba nights, eating homemade sweets, and waiting eagerly for Dassera when elders would bless them.

As the chatter flowed, Geetha mami entered the room with a small thali. It carried sandalwood paste, kumkum, and rice grains. With affection shining in her eyes, she applied tilak on each youngster’s forehead. “This is our way of invoking blessings of strength, wisdom, and protection,” she explained softly. “The tilak is not just a mark - it is a reminder of who we are, rooted in traditions that have guided us for centuries.”

The cousins fell silent for a moment, realising how such customs, though simple, carried deep meaning. Rohan remarked how rare it was to see this practice among younger generations today. “In the rush of modern life and western influences, these rituals fade,” he said, “yet they hold the power to keep us connected to our roots.”

Aditya added, “I remember how during Navratri, elders encouraged us to bow before the ghatasthapana - the kalash that symbolises energy and prosperity. Even lighting the evening diya together was an act of devotion that brought the family closer.” Rashmi smiled, recalling how as children they would compete to see who would keep the lamp glowing the longest.

Ria chimed in, “And Dassera was always about victory of good over evil. Remember how we collected the apta leaves, exchanging them as ‘gold’ for prosperity? It was such a joyful way of teaching us the value of righteousness.”

The group laughed at those memories, but each heart was touched by the wisdom behind these customs. These weren’t just rituals - they were values wrapped in symbolism, teaching unity, respect, and the eternal triumph of goodness.

As the night deepened, the cousins joined the hosts for aarti. In that moment, the younger generation realised that while life may carry them across cities and countries, these traditions are threads that tie them back to their heritage.

This Dassera, they pledged silently to carry forward the legacy - not just for themselves, but for their children - to ensure the flame of culture, customs, and values never fades.

For all of us the message is simple: even if we cannot follow every custom, let us at least embrace a few with sincerity. Lighting a diya or applying a tilak may seem small, but they carry within them centuries of meaning. And in keeping them alive, we keep our roots strong, our families united, and our culture glowing for generations to come.

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When cousins meet at Dassera

  Cherishing Traditions Amidst Navratri & Dassera The festive air of Navratri and Dassera had filled Mumbai with colour, music, and de...